Tuesday, July 20, 2010

eat, pray, love

Lots of folks have read the book Eat, Pray, Love over the last couple of years. It's one woman's internal and external odyssey -- she travels to Italy to explore the senses (eat); to India, to build a life of spirit (pray), and to Bali to learn of the heart (love). As I sat at the airport in Rome, waiting a long time to get home to Boston, I realized I'd had my own Eat, Pray, Love experience over the last two weeks in Italy.

EAT: Hiking along the Cinque Terre -- five coastal villages built into the cliffs, so that the whole place seems to hover over the ocean -- I felt my senses come alive. The food, the sights, the people, the uphill climbing to get anywhere, even the singing every night at a village pub (yes, they got me to sing solo, and my last night I was actually the featured artist -- crazy, I tell you!!!). In the Cinque Terre, you feel alive and grateful and in your body, and it's glorious.

PRAY: In Assisi, as I shared in an earlier missive, you can't help but pray. It's the town where, early in the 13th century, a privileged young man named Francesco heard the calling to drop everything and follow Jesus and to move into solidarity with the outcasts. That man, later called St. Francis, built a beautiful and simple monastic community (the Franciscans) that has shaped the way many of us follow Jesus. I can't tell you what it meant to meditate on the same crucifix that "spoke" to him and called him, to pray at his tomb, to walk with other pilgrims. But I can tell you I've rarely prayed as I did in Assisi.

LOVE: The whole reason I went to Italy was to perform the wedding of Jason Long and Dani Morello, two beloved members of The Crossing community (Jason has served the last two years as our Minister for Community Life). Dani is half Italian and half Cuban, and her father's family hails from Florence, so they decided to truck the whole wedding to that gorgeous Renaissance town. Even if you weren't there for a wedding, Florence would make you believe in love. The human capacity for love and beauty, art and passion, drives the city and has for centuries. Add to that setting the marriage of two people as loving, as committed, as mature and as hopeful as Dani and Jason -- who wouldn't be weeping at the power of love? (I started crying as soon as Jason came down the aisle with his parents, and I was the priest!).

This final Thursday before our summer Sabbath, I hope I see you at worship. I also pray that, at some point this summer, you get your own Eat + Pray + Love adventure. May you moments that take you deeper into wonder at the holy temple that is your body, deeper into the heart of God who is always longing for relationship with you (pray), and deeper into love for the people with whom God has surrounded you (love). The odyssey starts now ...


this week @ the crossing
WORSHIP and COMMUNITY // Thursdays @ 6pm
Kelsey Hanf offers the final reflection of July -- text pasted below. It's also our last official worship gathering before September 2. Our spiritual practice: continuing to create our own books of daily prayers. If you made a book last week, PLEASE BRING IT BACK! (all drawing utensils will be supplied, but if you've got favorite prayers, bring 'em with you). If you didn't make one, start from scratch this week.

  • BEFORE WORSHIP: Set-up for worship at 4:45pm (all the cool kids are doing it!). Prayer circle at 5:30pm.
  • AFTER WORSHIP: Some simple snacks and then off to Fajitas n Ritas for cheap dinner and drinks. THEN Episco-Disco @ Estate!
  • NEXT 5 THURSDAYS: House church -- simple evening worship gatherings in Crossing members' homes. Five Thursdays @ 6pm: July 29 and August 5, 12, 19, 26.
  • BY SUBWAY: 138 Tremont St -- across from Park St T stop (Red or Green Line); near Downtown Crossing T (Orange)
  • PARKING: Boston Common Garage, Charles Street between Boston Common and Public Garden ($5 with validation @ church)
  • FOR MORE INFO: Head to our website: www.thecrossingboston.org.

EPISCO-DISCO // After Worship this Thursday
We'll make our final procession to Estate, a fabulous nearby club that welcomes everybody and is free if you show up at 10pm. So that's what we do, every 4th Thursday. CONTACT Lura at lsteele120@gmail.com.

WALTHAM HOUSE VISIT // This Friday @ 3-5pm
A small group of Crossing folks who care about justice and outreach will head to Waltham House to share fun, support and some blessing with homeless LGBT youth who live at this half-way house in Waltham. The trip is full now, but we'll do it again on Thursday, August 19. CONTACT Maegan at maeghan.ouimet@gmail.com.

HOUSE CHURCH // Next Thursday, July 29 @ 6-7pm in Cambridge
During our Summer Sabbath, we won't gather for worship at The Cathedral. Instead, at 6pm on five Thursdays -- July 29 and August 5, 12, 19, 26 -- we will gather in homes or other places to share prayer and community. Beth Graham opens her home for this first gathering: 38 Berkeley St, Apt. 5, Somerville -- close to Porter Sq, Davis Sq, or Lechmere T. CONTACT Beth at ElizabethLGraham@gmail.com.


justice & service @ the crossing
HOPE IN ACTION // NOW
As a part of the city-wide Hope in Action campaign -- shepherded by our partners in the LifeTogether young adult intern program in the Diocese of Massachusetts -- many of us have made a
1% commitment to action that makes a difference. CONTACT our Hope in Action Strategy Leader Natalie Finstad at hope@thecrossingboston.org for lots more info. Here's the most recent news:
  • See info above re: the Waltham House visits. And pray as we build relationships with Bridge Over Troubled Waters, a local group that also works with homeless teens.
  • People who made 1% commitments should now be in touch with a Hope in Action team member to build some community support. If not, CONTACT Natalie.
  • We're still setting up and leading conversations about transgender inclusion and rights.

general crossing community info
InBetweenCrossings: groups.google.com/group/inbetweencrossings. Log on and view or share all kinds of random community notices: furniture, apartment sublets, concerts, lost and found, play dates. If you want to share it with our community, start here.

Giving @ The Crossing: follow the link to learn about sharing your money or your prayers with The Crossing -- it's a spiritual practice that we're grateful to invite people into. We raise a huge chunk of the money for this ministry among our own members (the rest comes from grants we apply for and from generous support from our Cathedral and Bishops). To make an ongoing pledge, fill out a card at worship or CONTACT Chris at giving@thecrossingboston.org.

Meet Our Crew: The Crossing is led by a team of amazing, creative and faithful young adults. Follow the link to meet them and see who you might contact to more deeply engage our community.


this week's gospel: Luke 11:1-13
Jesus was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples." He said to them, "When you pray, say:
Father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day our daily bread.
And forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us.
And do not bring us to the time of trial."

And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, `Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.' And he answers from within, `Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.' I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs.

"So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are sinful, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will our Abba God in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask!"

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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

big alleluias for our big new hire!

And now, for some magnificent news: after a thorough search, we've made a selection in our search for a new Minister for Community Life at The Crossing!

We posted far and wide, including sending an email to nationally renowned emerging church leader Isaac Everett, asking if he would circulate the job posting to his community in New York. He's quite busy in the city -- co-leads the transmission community, writes ancient-future music and liturgical resources (like the great stuff in his book Emergent Psalter or on his website: http://www.isaaceverett.com) and cooks up all kinds of fun in the worlds of music, liturgy, web/media and community.

Little did any of us expect that Isaac would submit his own application for our position and offer to bi-locate to Boston! Clearly, he would have made an awesome Minister for Community Life. But our Job Search Team decided he'd make an even better Minister for Liturgical Arts and Outreach, and that's what he'll be, starting on August 15. I'll shift to work with the team of leaders holding Community Life: newcomers, spiritual formation, small groups, fun and more. Jason Long, our current Minister for Community Life, is getting married in July and shifting to full-time with Life Together Young Adult Intern Program here in Boston (blessings, dear brother!). And a fantastic core of volunteers and interns will continue to partner to nurture our community as we seek and make real God's will in the city of Boston.

Somebody please shout "Amen!"

I can hear you now :)

this week @ the crossing
WORSHIP and COMMUNITY // Thursdays @ 6pm
Rev. Steph kicks July off with a reflection on Luke 10:1-11 + 16-20. Our spiritual practice: creating your own book of daily prayers (all supplies will be supplied, but if you've got favorite prayers, bring 'em with you).
  • BEFORE WORSHIP: Common Games @ 3pm. Set-up for worship at 4:45pm. Prayer circle at 5:30pm.
  • AFTER WORSHIP: The ritual procession to Fajitas n Ritas.
  • BY SUBWAY: 138 Tremont St -- across from Park St T stop (Red or Green Line); near Downtown Crossing T (Orange)
  • PARKING: Boston Common Garage, Charles Street between Boston Common and Public Garden ($5 with validation @ church)
  • FOR MORE INFO: Head to our website -- www.thecrossingboston.org
COMMON GAMES // 1st and 3rd Thursdays @ 3pm
Come to play outdoor games on Boston Common, including Frisbee, bocce & kickball. Meet on the Cathedral steps at 3pm. CONTACT Jack at jackmjenkins@gmail.com.

WALTHAM HOUSE VISIT // This Saturday @ 10:30am-3:30pm
MOVED FROM LAST SUNDAY: Please join a small team of Crossing folks helping out at Waltham House on Saturday (especially if you've made a 1% commitment as part of Hope in Action). The house is about 25 minutes from Boston, is part of the Home for Little Wanderers, and works with young people who've been kicked out of their homes or otherwise traumatized because of their sexuality.

To sign up, get transport info and other logistics, CONTACT Maeghan at maeghan.ouimet@gmail.com or Natalie at hope@thecrossingboston.org. FYI: Only 6 people at a time can come, so sign up soon.

EVERYBODY DOES THEOLOGY // Next Thursday after worship
A final summer conversation on queer justice, the church and the world. This time, our Justice & Outreach folks will guide a free-range talk about queer identity, the media and God. CONTACT Caroline at caroline@diomassintern.org.

WIZARD OF OZ @ FREE FRIDAY FLICKS // 6pm @ The Hatchshell on Boston's Esplanade
We'll join the rest of Boston for fun on the Esplanade next Friday evening. Click here for info: Friday Flicks Schedule. We'll meet on the Cathedral steps and head to the river. CONTACT info coming up ...

KICK-NIC! // Sunday, July 18 @ 3-7pm
The Crossing will kick some butt in our first (but hopefully not last) Kick-Nic. We've invited several local churches to join us for picnic and games on Boston Common. Bring potluck and a big smile. CONTACT Justin at justice@thecrossingboston.org.


community life @ the crossing
Here is the full list of opportunities to connect, build community and serve this summer. You can also keep up at our website:www.thecrossingboston.org/groups.

Everybody Does Theology: 2nd Thursdays after worship
Our theology roundtable focuses this summer on justice and queer issues. July 8: LGBT representations in themedia. CONTACT Caroline at caroline@diomassintern.org.

Episco-Disco: 4th Thursdays after worship
What would Jesus do? Jesus would dance! In June, we host a post-worship dance party @ The Crossing! In July, we return to Estate, a nearby dance club that’s free before 10pm. CONTACT Justin atjustice@thecrossingboston.org for the dance party. CONTACT Lura at lsteele120@gmail.com about the July outing.

Waltham House Visits: starting this Saturday, other dates through summer
We’re building relationships and helping out at Waltham House, a sanctuary for homeless and traumatized queer youth in the Boston area. CONTACT Maeghan at maeghan.ouimet@gmail.com.

Community Dinners: Mon., July 26 @ 6:30-8:30pm
Crossing members open our homes to share a meal and share life. Sue Spilecki hosted a slamming gathering in Brookline last week. Next up is a July dinner in Harvard Square on the campus of Episcopal Divinity School.

Brookline Neighborhood Group: 6:30-8pm every other Monday
The Brookline Neighborhood Group continues in the BU area, sharing food and community. CONTACT Alex atalexfroom@gmail.com.

Central Square World Cup Potlucks: Throughout this month!
Tracey and Seth Wispelwey open their home (and giant TV) in Central Square for the World Cup, food (selection usually matches thenationalities that are facing off on the field) and fellowship. Join the world party! CONTACT sethwispelwey@yahoo.com or tracy@restorationvillage.com.

Boston Outdoors Series: Join the city's great free summer offerings!
- Fri., July 9 @ sundown: Wizard of Oz (Esplanade at the Hatchshell)
- July 28-Aug. 15: Shakespeare in the Park performs “Othello” -- stay tuned for the date!

“Kick-Nic”: Sun., July 18 @ 3-7pm
Join The Crossing and other local worship communities for kickball and picnic! CONTACT Justin:justice@thecrossingboston.org.

August Sabbath: July 29-August 31 (return September 2)
Every August, The Crossing community takes a deep breath and pauses our usual worship. Instead, Thursday evenings in August, we share neighborhood-based worship at homes, or a trip to help at Waltham House. To help out or to host, CONTACT Jack atworship-help@thecrossingboston.org.


justice & service @ the crossing
HOPE IN ACTION // NOW
As a part of the city-wide Hope in Action campaign -- shepherded by our partners in the LifeTogether young adult intern program in the Diocese of Massachusetts -- many of us have made a
1% commitment to action that makes a difference. CONTACT our Hope in Action Strategy Leader Natalie Finstad at hope@thecrossingboston.org for lots more info. Here's the most recent news:
  • See info above re: the Waltham House visits. And pray as we build relationships with Bridge Over Troubled Waters, a local group that also works with homeless teens.
  • People who made 1% commitments should expect a contact from a Hope in Action team member -- if you haven't heard already -- about meeting in small groups. These groups will gather to share support and to make plans for 1) facilitating conversations on transgender inclusion and rights AND 2) visiting Waltham House to be a supportive presence with queer homeless youth.
  • Be thinking NOW about the church, school or other group you'd like to visit to do a training, ideally this summer but also in the fall. We'll go to the places where we each have relationships. That's the way lasting change happens!

general crossing community info
InBetweenCrossings: groups.google.com/group/inbetweencrossings. Log on and view or share all kinds of random community notices: furniture, apartment sublets, concerts, lost and found, play dates. If you want to share it with our community, start here.

Giving @ The Crossing: follow the link to learn about sharing your money or your prayers with The Crossing -- it's a spiritual practice that we're grateful to invite people into. We raise a huge chunk of the money for this ministry among our own members (the rest comes from grants we apply for and from generous support from our Cathedral and Bishops). To make an ongoing pledge, fill out a card at worship or CONTACT Chris at giving@thecrossingboston.org.

Meet Our Crew: The Crossing is led by a team of amazing, creative and faithful young adults. Follow the link to meet them and see who you might contact to more deeply engage our community.

Big blessings and alleluias all around,
Rev. Steph

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